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#21. Every new acquaintance asking which church you attend. (This applies only to the MidWest, perhaps, where I spent a happy, but church-less year.)

#1: Portion sizes
Indeed, food portions in Europe are usually smaller (although I've read a British journalist describing Central European portions as large once). This is true especially for fast food; you get smaller portions for the same money, so that in some countries McDonald's isn't even considered cheap! In combination with #6 (everything being designed around cars), this is surely one of the main reasons that Europeans are slimmer than Americans: lack of opportunity. Very few Europeans actually have an opportunity to just hop into a car, drive to a nearby store with a drive-through (and therefore not burn any calories with walking) and purchase large quantities of unhealthy food and drink for a reasonable price.
Recently, a couple of American students that visited our university (in Ljubljana, Slovenia) remarked that everybody is thin and that candy is strangely expensive (compared to the US). And I've read somewhere on the internet that some American parents often pacify their whining or unruly children with food (often candy). Of course, if candy is expensive, parents will think twice before doing that, and so the children won't develop a bad habit.

#2: Flags everywhere
It's true that Americans very likely love their country more than people elsewhere love theirs. But I think there's another factor at play here that also contributes to this difference. The fact is that in many countries around the world, and in almost all European countries (not counting pocket states) a flag does not just signify citizenship, it is also a symbol of an ethnic group. Likewise, European countries are generally understood to be ethnic nation states (or whichever term you prefer, the point is that the country in question is thought of as the homeland of a certain ethnic group; for example, the Czech Republic is understood to be a country of (belonging to) the Czechs, a more or less well defined ethnic group, and not of anyone else, even if they move there) while the US is understood to be a "proposition nation" (a nation that is not limited to any single ethnic group but is founded on some common principles or ideals, such as the Constitution).
One's citizenship in Europe (or in some other parts of the world, East and Southeast Asia spring to mind) is therefore more often than not strongly connected to one's ancestry and can be, as you can probably imagine, quite a volatile subject. And since blood ties are often stronger than ideals or ideologies, the US has always needed to encourage patriotism to unite their vastly diverse masses of people and keep them together in peace.
Whereas, to get back to the flag issue, the American flag signifies belief in certain ideas and pride in some common achievements, the flag of a European country signifies something far more deep-lying and exclusive. It is therefore considered bad taste by many Europeans to excessively display a national flag; to give you a comparison, it would be like a tall basketball player going around taunting short men about their height.
Long story short: it's not just because Americans are more proud or patriotic, it's also because their patriotism has a more uniting function and is therefore not considered controversial.ž

#16: Loud and friendly
The Americans on visit here were genuinely surprised when strangers in our city (pop. 272,000, with a fairly low population density) wouldn't talk to them. I think this plays well into the observations that Alexis de Tocqueville made about the high level of trust that Americans have towards their fellow citizens (even complete stranger). This was probably made possible by strong common morals and values, influenced by Protestantism. In some other parts of the world, people still don't trust anyone they're not related to, or are friends with, because they cannot be sure if they have good motives. (It's not so bad in Europe, but people still don't feel the need to be particularly friendly to strangers, or at least they don't feel the need to initiate any friendly contact with them.)

Half of my family is from the US and honestly I find this post really untrue. 1) Portion sizes are only seen as being big because Americans are known as being the "obese" place. Not once have I ever gone to the states and said "oh wow, theres a lot on this plate" as opposed to Canada. 2) Flags are everywhere but most of them understand that. Whats wrong with being patriotic about where you're from? Maybe Canadians should be more loving of their home. 3) Canadians don't have tax included. 7) lack of quality? But yet, Canadians watch 99% of American television. 9) culture shock. Happens anywheres you go that involves a different culture, not just America. Also, i'm pretty sure they're not the only ones to use the statement "oh, really?" 15) Many fast food restaurants in Canada now have free refills for soft drinks, again, not just Americans. 18) Almost all Canadian banks use 'tap' for debit transactions. This consists of you just having to tap a card onto a machine, no pin.. nothing. I feel like Americans are being picked on for things that almost all other countries do as well. I mean, obviously language and cultures are going to be different but you have to expect that everywhere. Most of these don't just go for Americans. I think Americans should be cut some slack for the things listed here that don't really make much sense coming from a Canadian.

This type of list looks like the fodder for Buzzfeed enthusiasts and (while humorous to some) seems to be mainly just pretty obvious (and unoriginal) generalizations about the United States. I am pretty sure that most Americans would probably be aware of the stereotypes presented in this list. The "Weird things" of this list aren't actually all that weird, rather, slightly passive aggressive jabs at the stereotypical patriotic, materialistic and all consuming "American." Also to the "flag concerns" above,^ I think that the flag is of much greater significance to American's and not "a need to prove ones 'Americanism.' America is a country founded upon rebellion, and the flag is essentially a symbol of their independence; it makes sense that it is a very visual symbol in the United States.

I'd agree with the argument that Mark made about this list containing some sweeping generalizations, which seem to make light of American culture, rather than celebrating its richness. (I think it's fine to go either way, but America is not as simple as a list of 20 habits). The very concept of something being "weird" is derived from an ignorance or unfamiliarity with a practice. While in some respect I think it should be dismissed as intending to be lighthearted and humorous, it also isn't much different in nature than the widespread and often harmful stereotypes of other countries which serve to homogenize an entire nation, undermining the complexity and richness of its population. As Mark mentioned, this list does also allude to Americans' overindulgence and materialism by positioning it against their marked patriotism.